The Paradox of Living

Sometimes I just can’t seem to find the answers I seek. You, too? I search and search, reading and journaling, asking questions and sitting in silence, and still I feel lost. I feel frustrated and angry because I tell myself that I’m “supposed”...

Teaching Kids about Sex(ual Scripts)

My last blog post was a few weeks ago, and in it I addressed how our sexual scripts Рthose things we think should or will happen in sexual/romantic/dating situations Рhave contributed to the prevalence  rape culture and sexual harassment. Sometimes these...

Couples’ Choice Award – Again!

I’m so pleased to announce that I’ve been awarded the Wedding Wire Couples’ Choice Award for 2018! This is my 3rd year to receive this honor, and it all comes from the glowing reviews by the couples I have had the privilege of marrying. I am so...

Inspiration? What inspiration?

Blah. Bleh. Harumph. Those words pretty much sum up my ambition lately. I could blame it on a few things: 4 months ago I moved to a new city, and I’m still finding my feet; I’m an empty-nester now that both my daughters are off to college; Winter/The...

The Call of the Spiritual Warrior

I came across this “letter” today, and it felt so important to share it during these times of upheaval and uncertainty when we are all seeking our better selves, calling on others to do the same, and holding the line of boundary for those who have not been...